Do you remember the phrase, "Girls who wear glasses, never get passes?" Well, gone are the days of the wallflower, the mousy women behind cats-frame, coke-bottle eyeglasses who got overlooked at dances and parties. The billion-dollar eyewear industry moved with the times and reinvented themselves into a fashion bazaar - even after contacts nearly killed them.

Likewise, the idea that full-figured women will somehow be left standing by the wall with no one to dance with is just absurd. The world is changing, and there is room for everyone. The idea that a woman should hide behind a tree or turn down social engagements because she isn't slender enough is one well worth kicking to the curb. The simple truth is this: Beautiful Women Come in ALL Shapes and Sizes. And the one we need to say that to most of all is the full-figured woman herself.

And by the way, say good-bye to the days of the moo moo, because the fashion industry knows this more than anyone - as a full-figured woman, today's options go far beyond Lane Bryant and wearing your husband's T-shirts. Today’s plus size woman can don the latest inspired runway looks tailored just for her beautiful and curvaceous silhouette. Thankfully, finally there are as many style and shopping choices for the plus size women as there are for smaller women. And there's no shortage of price points either. From the most exclusive business suits at Neiman Marcus to the sportier and trendy look of online shops, like www.swakdesigns.com and American Eagle Online, the choices and options are limitless. That’s right ladies, there are no more excuses as to why you can’t look your best and feel absolutely comfortable while doing so!

This is right on target, because an important part of every woman's identity is to look her best, no matter what the occasion or what her budget constraints might be! And despite rumors to the contrary, looking great every day has very little to do with weight or size. After all, anyone can look plain and harried or simply unattractive, if they don't take the time to look their best; and that's what it takes, no matter what size you are, it takes time. Time to have a great hairstyle and a wardrobe that fits and compliments your figure and complexion. Time to have shoes that are flattering and comfortable. Time to choose colors that excite you and grab just the right amount of attention. When we don't take the time to prioritize those things, we are missing out on countless opportunities to build our self-esteem and show the world how magnificent and gorgeous we are; to really feel good about ourselves!

Clothing is a fantastic way to be empowered on the inside and noticed on the outside. It is the ultimate way in which we express ourselves. So take that time today and explore the world of fashion choices available to you. No matter what size your body may be, your spirit always has room to grow!